Am I miserable?

I have been feeling miserable and depressed since the day she told me she no longer cared for me - 16 days ago. And when her affair was discovered, I went into a deeper depression and the torture was unimaginable. And then she told me that she never loved me - not even during the last 17 years - the marriage was an escape for her - I was a saviour that appeared to bring her away from her family. And this was the greatest hurt that she has inflicted on me. It has been a week since she told me that and I am still surviving. The pain is still there. But now, when I looked at the postive aspect, life is not too bad after all. I still have the three kids. I still have a job that keep the family going. I still drive a great car. I still buy the things I want and do the things I want. And now, I started to appreciate more the little things in my life - like the monring walk, the sending of the children to school, the conversations with the children, the playing with the little one, the reading of my books that has collected dust over the years, the blogging but most of all the sense of existence. And the other day, there was an article about the poor in Singapore. There was this Malay women. Her husband left her, left nothing for her - not even the furniture in the house and she has 5 children to take care. One has kidney disease and another has heart problem. And she made barely $1000 a month to keep the five children going. When I compare my plight to hers - mine seem like a non-issue. Yes, my wife left me - and that is about all. I have a five-figure salary - a house, a nice car, 3 wonderful and healthy children, a maid and a dog to feed. Time to move on. Treasure what you have.