This morning, while doing my walk she SMSed me. She wanted to bring the little one out to her friend's house. At first I refused but I relented in the end. I told her to bring the little one back by 7pm and I will have the maid accompany her. Then at 10am she started to call and checked with the children their Birth Certificate numbers. When I checked with her, she said she had gone to the lawyer's office to file for separation. I called her, asking her to delay the decision - to allow a cooling off period before deciding. She refused. I had no choice. The writing was on the wall. She was gone. This time I have to face the reality.